meanwhile,
in the real world - or what presented itself as such - robert and debbi
separated. robert's first reaction to debbi saying she wanted a divorce
was to say, fine, i'll just leave and fuck you. then he thought about it
and decided that it was probably a good thing. he'd have his own life.
he could come up from the basement and live in his own house. and that's
what happened. they first moved to debbi's new house, she took over the
housing certificate they had had since the kids would be living with her.
then, after a month or so, after he had enough money for a deposit, he
found his own house. they fucked their last night together and as he was
driving off he put his wedding ring from his left hand to his right. he
still wore it for the kids. it wasn't so bad. he set up his studio in the
living room and was more or less ok with it - except for not having the
kids around. he had them on the weekends but that wasn't enough. he wasn't
the type of father who did things with the kids - except take them to movies
- like go to the zoo or whatever. he improvised with them. it was all in
the moment and now most of those moments were gone. he had agreed to a
divorce with debbi, not his kids. his kids and him weren't the problem.
and this wasn't their home. they bring stuff with them when they came over,
but most of their stuff was at debbi's house. when she and he agreed to
split up, they agreed to split everything 50-50. this was not 50-50. and
it got worse.
soon
after he got his house, his hours at work were cut. he was now part-time.
he couldn't afford the house. he had to move. he found an apartment that
was cheap enough. it was only one bedroom. now, not only did the kids not
have all their own stuff with them, they didn't have their own rooms. and
the place was crawling with cockroaches. he spent a very dark depressing
winter there. he tried telling debbi that this wasn't working. she more
or less said, tough shit. she couldn't think of anything and neither could
he. except he thought maybe they could rent a duplex together so he could
be closer to the kids and they could spend the night in either place depending
on where they wanted. she said, no. she didn't want him that close. this
was the first sign that it wasn't what the kids might want or need that
mattered to her but what she wanted for herself.
the following
spring he moved again. he found a remodeled garage with a big yard. it
was still only one bedroom but it was a little more cheerful. he planted
a garden. he had nightmare. she got poisoned once when she walked through
the neighbor's yard who had put down massive doses of weed killer on the
tall grass. she almost died. he had the wood stove. it was sort of ok again.
he built bunk beds for the kids but he hadn't put on a railing. daniel
kept falling out of the top bunk. he forgets if he ever put on a railing.
once when they were over and debbi had been pushing him to make sure they
did their homework he got in a fight about it with rachel. he got mad and
threw all her stuffed animals out the side door into the yard and sent
her to bed. he was still inhaling all those chemicals. he fell asleep later
in his chair, which he did a lot of, and the phone rang in the middle of
the night. rachel had left and walked back to her mom's house - they lived
close to each other. debbi was pissed.
he didn't
work much on tapes during this time. he doesn't know why. maybe being down
in the basement like some disgruntled teen-ager with his wife/mother upstairs
inspired him. he no longer felt that angst. he didn't know what he felt.
sort of empty. he still wrote though. endless notebooks about nothing.
but this
house wasn't working out either. he had been paying bills with his credit
card. it was almost used up. the reasonable thing would have been to get
another job. but he was never reasonable. he hated the job he had. why
would he want to go out and get another? and printing jobs were hard to
come by. the computer and copier age was coming. he thought of the unreasonable
thing. he would live in his car - at least until he could afford another
place, he thought. that's what he did. it was ok. he could take showers
at the school where he worked. at night he could hang out in a bar or cafe.
he visited the kids at debbi's house. she didn't like that. now it was
his turn to say, tough shit. he still could take them to movies. he could
tuck them to sleep at night. but then he had to go. he remembers one time
when rachel hugged him and wouldn't let go. don't leave, she said. but
debbi was standing in the doorway and tapping her foot. he had to go.
he eventually
bought this beater old van to live in. he could keep his clothes with him
and it was more comfortable to sleep in than his car, which was a small
toyota. he let a student at school drive his car. she worked in the print
shop for financial aid. she got in an accident and totaled the car. the
insurance paid him more than he probably could have sold it for. he got
a cold weather sleeping bag for the approaching winter. he found places
around town where he could alternate parking. one was at a freeway rest
stop. one was under a bridge. the cops came there once but didn't tell
him to leave. they just warned him it was dangerous. he knew that. one
was in an industrial area. it went ok. around this time was when he started
driving the car for the art professor. she had hired a student to do it
but he got sick. she came into the print shop - which was next to the art
building - and was talking about it and he said he'd go. it was summer
and the print shop was slow in the summer since it was at a school, so
his boss let him. the professor wanted the car and the art stuff in it
in nyc for the summer. he'd drive there and she'd fly him back. he'd get
to see his folks who all still lived in new jersey, except his brother.
it was a good deal. he made it to ny in 31/2 days. at the end of the summer,
she flew him out and he drove it back. he did this a couple of times. the
second year he took rachel. she chipped a tooth in his sister's swimming
pool. a couple of years later he did the same thing with her husband's
car driving it west to portland. he took daniel this time. as they were
driving back he wouldn't get out of the car the whole time except when
they slept. it was winter so they paid for motels this time. he remembers
driving over the last mountain range just before it was probably shut down.
they were the only ones on the freeway. there was snow and pine trees.
they were listening to a classical tape. it was very zen.
so this
went on for awhile. then debbi told him she was starting to go out with
guys and he had to call first before coming over. he felt mixed about this.
he didn't really care who she was fucking - if anybody. in fact he felt
ok with that. he'd been her first serious boyfriend and look what it had
gotten her. he was glad for her. but he didn't want some guy coming between
him and his kids - especially as tenuous as their relationship was at that
point with him having no home for them. which was exactly what eventually
happened. dear old ron. ron patton - some relation to the general himself
- or so he claimed. let this name be named. ex-coast guard and cop wanna-be.
talk about going in the opposite direction for debbi. she even had used
his commodore 64 computer, which he had let her use, to find him. he ran
some bulletin board - this was pre-internet.
this
was trouble.
the trouble
came when he moved in with her and started playing daddy to the kids -
though she said he was only trying to be their friend. this included disciplining
daniel which debbi allowed him to do. daniel didn't react to this very
well. once when robert had come over to pick him up he was told that daniel
was at some place for run-away kids. had he run away? what happened? when
he started asking questions about it, he was told it was none of his business.
this put him through the roof. he left, but later he called her and started
demanding answers - rather loudly. she told him to quit calling her. he
called back. this time ron got on the phone and told him this was harassment.
maybe so, but he wasn't about to let this asshole tell him that. he hopped
in his van and was determined to let him know that with a tire iron. he
calmed down somewhat by the time he got there but still pounded on the
door. debbi came to the window and told him to go away and come back tomorrow
and she'd talk to him. he left again.
the next
day he was still pissed. who was this guy doing anything with daniel and
who was debbi letting him do it and then to tell him it was none of his
business? was this the 50-50 part? this was far from what they had agreed
to - as far as he was concerned. 50-50 indeed. so he shows up. he
was in full improvisational performance mode. this was a pissing contest,
with both ron and debbi, and he thought he'd get to them by undercutting
them - or him. debbi let him in and said she'd get the number where daniel
was. still no explanation was forthcoming. robert started to sing, my boyfriend's
back and you gonna be in in trouble, hey na, hey na, my boyfriend's back.
he went over to where ron was sitting and got on his knees. he felt his
leg moving up to his crotch. hey, i bet you got a big cock there, don't
you? he said. you're the man. ron jumped up and grabbed him by the throat
and pushed him against the wall yelling, call the police, i'm going to
kill him. robert kept singing my boyfriend's back. debbi came back and
ron let him go and sat down. she gave him the number and told him to leave.
you didn't say he was queer, ron said. robert turned and said, you'll get
yours, asshole. to which he replied in his best clint eastwood voice, make
my day. but robert was satisfied that he already had.
the next
day, or the day after, robert was served with a restraining order at work.
he read it. it was interesting. debbi said she had felt threatened and
it was good her boyfriend was there to protect her. she said robert had
smelled like marijuana and was probably violent because he was high, and
when he had gotten in his van it looked like he had lit a marijuana cigarette
before he drove off. how had he threatened her and her boyfriend protected
her? was she the one who he was threatening, if he was threatening? would
he be threatening if ron wasn't there? - if he hadn't gotten on the phone
to tell him off the previous night? marijuana cigarette? during the time
he was performing this he was chain smoking camels. that's what he lit
up in his van. he remembered back when they were married, she used to say
that she could tell when he had gotten high at kathy's because he always
came home in a good mood. was he violent? provoking violence maybe, and
he knew it, was counting on it, it was too easy - but wasn't he the one
slammed against the wall by someone who was threatening to kill him? so
who's report was this? hers, or ron's - the big hero?
he was
thinking he should have worn his mask, maybe then debbi would have gotten
it. probably not though. the fiction was too strong. once again, he was
the one who was crazy. but that was the only way he could see it - the
only way to bring it to the surface. it's what he always had done when
faced with other people's self-serving bullshit. it never did him any good
but at least he knew what the score was.
but he
started thinking that maybe he was crazy. what the hell was he doing anyway?
how did he get out of this? how did he get into it? what was it to begin
with? he talked about it with kathy. she told him he should drive out to
the beach and chill out. he did. he got nightmare - who he had been keeping
at the print shop since he lost his house - and went. they had fun.
to flash
into the future of all that, at last report ron had finally had someone
make his day - that someone being debbi. they broke up. they had a house
and she moved out. he stayed there but since he wasn't working she still
paid the mortgage. he was depressed. they sold the house. he had nowhere
else to go but he had to move out. he now lives in a motel with the money
from the sale. maybe someday he'll be living in his car too. score two
for debbi. robert feels like calling him up and congratulating him. welcome
to the club. how's your day going now, ron?
robert
doesn't consider himself divorced. he doesn't know what it was. when he
was served the papers they only set in stone what was already going on.
he had nothing to say about how his kids were being raised or by whom.
the divorce pushed its way through without him being able to do anything
to stop it or change it. there are three signatures on the divorce papers,
debbi's, her lawyers, her judge's - all women. his doesn't appear anywhere.
he didn't agree to anything. he tried to get a lawyer but she had gone
to legal aid to get hers. when he called other legal services they seemed
to be unwilling to go up against one of their own. no one would represent
him.
he tried
to go see debbi's lawyer to talk to her but he was kicked out. they were
the ones making this antagonistic. before the divorce he and debbi had
gone to a lawyer to have their wills drawn up. a little too late for that
but they were concerned about the kids and who would get them if the two
of them died - though now that was unlikely since they weren't together.
they didn't want them going to anyone in their families. they made kathy
and her husband guardians. so they could agree on that. robert wondered
why they couldn't do the same thing with the divorce - both of them go
to a lawyer and have it drawn up. he thought they agreed on everything
- or should have. neither wanted to be together or wanted anything from
each other. the only issue was the kids and who should have say over them
and their lives. to him they both should have. they were still their only
parents no matter who else came into it. debbi got all of that.
he didn't
understand her. why did she do that? why did she insist on control and
then tell him it was none of his business? why had she let ron in when
daniel made it clear that he didn't like him? for himself, if he had the
kids and he met someone and either or both of his kids didn't get along
with them, that person would have to go. but not her. she was determined
to get this guy ron - or maybe any guy. and if that meant her own son had
to go, then that's what it meant. that's what had pissed him off. and he's
still pissed off about it considering what had all come out of that. when
he thought about it they had just acted out her own parents' divorce. maybe
that's how she thought divorces went or had to go. he didn't know. he didn't
know what the fuck happened. some best friend she turned out to be.
before
this he had done a gallery show on his own. it was at this space that was
a bar/rock club/gallery called blue sky. he wrote them a proposal saying
he was going to do this and that - he forgets what all he had said. he
got a week. but when the time came, he had nothing. he had to do something
though. what he decided to do was to bring a bunch of junk he had collected
over the years, which was stored in debbi's basement, and build an installation
right there for the whole week. he didn't know what though. around this
time he was working on the crew of another cable tv show called, where's
the art!?! he started out as a camera guy. but stevie who was the show's
host and creator kept yelling at her director about how she wanted lots
of chrom-a-key. that's like what the weather people use on tv to show the
weather maps behind them and movies use for special effects. they never
gave her chrom-a-key. he thought that if he was director he knew what to
do - knew what she wanted. she kept saying it. it wasn't too hard to figure
out. but they kept trying to do a straight show. as one director after
another left in frustration he decided to volunteer. since she had no one
left, she said, yeah. he went into the control room and tried to figure
out how everything worked - especially the chrom-a-key. after a couple
of shows he finally did. she was happy - well, as happy as she was going
to get. she was quite the bitch.
anyway,
the point of this was that he had just dumped a bunch of stuff in the middle
of the floor at the gallery and not much was coming out of it so far. he
was talking to her about this show and what he was trying to do with it.
she said they'd all come over and help after the cable show. they did and
suddenly it was all transformed. everybody started stringing stuff and
hanging stuff and before too long the space was a web of art - what he
would later call webs of chaos. some other guy, doug, happened to be there
too. he helped as well. he came back again to do more. it was pretty cool.
but the people at the bar bitched about it because they had to walk though
it to get to the bathrooms. some guy got pissed and said it was bullshit
and he wanted to destroy it. robert said he couldn't destroy it because
anything he did would only be part of the process that created it even
if he tore it all down - it was all the same thing. this apparently was
too heavy for him and he left. toward the end of the time he had to do
his installation - maybe it was two weeks, he can't remember - the gallery
owner told him he had to take it down because he was having bands on the
weekend. robert thought that would be great. people could work on the web
while the bands played. the guy didn't buy it. so down it came. it all
condensed into a ball about 3 feet wide. he threw it into his van and brought
it back to debbi's basement.
this
whole thing was pretty cosmic to robert. he started thinking of his art
as magick. at that point his mind was fluid enough that this made sense.
he decided to start working his magick with objects and things. he'd sit
in a park somewhere and improvise moving and placing objects and try to
feel his way around in it. around about this time he lost his job. he went
in one afternoon, which was when he worked, and his boss started yelling
at him for how messy the sink was. apparently her boss had come to yell
at her about it. robert said it wasn't just him that used it. but somehow
it was all him. he finally had had it and told his boss to get fucked and
walked out. he drove away. the next thing he remembers was sitting in this
park watching ducks. great, i just lost my job, he thought. he went back
and talked to the personnel manager who had always been nice to him and
asked whether that was actually what he had done. he explained about the
separation with debbi and that he was under a lot of stress, etc. she told
him that maybe he should take a leave of absence for the summer while he
straightened out his life. he said, ok. so that left him time to sit in
parks, or wherever seemed vibrationally suited, and practice magick. this
was all concerned with metaschizophrenic science. or else he was nuts.
this
one time he was with rachel and she told him that ron's truck had been
stolen. hmm, robert thought, maybe i am doing something. it later turned
out that ron's ex-wife had hired someone to steal it. but what gave her
that idea? robert thought. was it what he was sending out that found a
willing receiver? this was how his summer was going to go.
he hung
out at this one cafe during the day. that guy, doug, used to come by and
see him. robert was wondering if he was going insane and doug told him
it was all just performance. easy for him to say, robert thought. at night
he'd move to a bar and hang out there. he didn't really drink. he'd usually
order a coffee and brandy and then drink refills of coffee. he drank coffee
all day. this probably didn't help his mental state. his diet was pretty
much coffee and cigarettes, with an occasional bagel and creamcheese or
a slice or two of pizza. he also hung out at kathy's. he asked her if he
could just sit in her backyard awhile sometimes. silas was a great gardener.
their yard was always full of flowers and was very peaceful, very zen.
but his being there soon started freaking silas out and she said he couldn't
come over any more. he understood. around that time he had seen a movie
called s.p.l.i.t. it was sort of like his and kathy's project secret show.
the big computerized machine controlling everything and then this guy sabotages
it through chaotic improvisation. that's what robert thought was really
going on. that's what he thought he was doing.
at the
cafe and bar was this woman called rose - not her real name. he never found
out what her real name was. it might have been roxanne. she would sit and
stare into space all day. once in awhile she would talk to him and told
him all what was going on in her head. she was doing the same thing. she
was manipulating the whole thing in her mind. meanwhile he was still living
in his van. then one night this other woman, susan, shows up at the bar.
she was pretty whigged out and said that she needed a ride home to this
small town outside portland. robert gave her one. the whole time she's
talking about demons and angels and stuff and how everything is coming
down. it somehow fit in with what robert was thinking. when they got to
her house they ended up fucking.
the next
day he had to go back to see his kids. she went with him. they all went
to the park. then robert had to go meet with kathy at a friend of hers.
they were going to shoot some video. her friend had some of his own equipment.
robert left susan in the van while he did this. after they were done shooting
an excellent improvised video - they had shot one a few years before this
called, bongo mirrors, which ran as one of the it shows - he told them
he had someone waiting in the van. they were surprised. why hadn't he brought
her up? so he went down and got her. she went into her crazy act. she started
wandering around and messing with stuff and washing up in the sink and
talking to herself and soon it became clear to all why he hadn't brought
her up. so they left.
they
went back to her house but on the way his van broke down. by this time
she was really going and robert was going right along with her. they were
talking about jesus and lucifer, who they called joe and luke when they
were sitting in this bar talking about it. it was all order and chaos and
yin and yang and all sorts of other stuff and they were archetypes. robert
didn't know exactly what it was but it was making sense somehow. sometimes
she'd channel jesus, sometimes she'd channel lucifer to explain things.
once he did too - lucifer to her jesus, who she said were brothers. lucifer
was the oldest. it was sort of like christian witchcraft. in the middle
of this she took him to a car dealership and got some salesman to let them
take a test drive in one of the cars. while they were driving she talked
the guy into stopping by robert's van to try to jump start it. it didn't
start. robert was amazed at this. he asked her, how the fuck did you do
that? they had looked like hell. we're protected, she replied.
anyway,
this all went on so far and then it couldn't go any farther. robert had
enough. he last saw her standing in a field up on this hill. he decided
to walk back to the city. on the way he stopped by this guy's print shop
where he had worked a few weekends who was a friend of stevie's. robert
didn't have any money and he was going to ask him for bus fare. the guy
took one look at him and drove him back to the city and fed him when he
got there. he said he understood what was happening to robert. he said
the same thing happened to him years ago. he said just to ride through
it. back in the city, robert borrowed kathy's truck to go get his van.
he brought along this old hippie drunk from the bar to help him. he had
to switch batteries to get his van started. they drove back to the city
and parked his van on a street close to the cafe and the bar. it never
moved again until it was towed. when he saw doug and told him what all
had happened doug laughed. it was still all part of the performance to
him. and maybe it was.
so the
summer went on this way. he once had gotten some acid and did it with rose.
she talked like crazy. she told him about how the world was a manufactured
dream and she was designing it and manipulating it but there were forces
against her trying to take over so she had to always be on her guard and
stuff like that. it always seemed to be about this battle between good
and evil to people. robert sort of understood it but when it came down
to it he couldn't get behind it. the world seemed more complex than that
to him. it wasn't black and white. what about everything that wasn't good
or evil - or was a little parts of both to different degrees? he was still
doing his magick but he wasn't sure what he was trying to do with it. doing
battle with those who thought the world was divided between good and evil?
he wanted to throw a spanner into that and get people unlocked from it.
no more good and evil. no more us and them. he stayed for a week or so
with some junkies. he had met her at a grocery store. she brought him home
once awhile before this time and was giving clear indications that she
wanted to fuck. he didn't though. he doesn't know why. but they finally
kicked him out and he went back to sleeping in his van. he was running
out of money. he still had some of his latest portland idiot. he would
walk around downtown and hand them out to people. when somebody took one
he'd say, well it's free but if you could spare any change or cigarettes
that'd be cool. he couldn't out and out beg. a lot of people gave him money
- and cigarettes too. so he went on a little longer.
then
a notice was put on his van that unless it was moved it was going to be
towed. he went back to the college to see if he could get his job back.
nope. the shit was hitting the fan here. he didn't know what to do. he
was walking around once and he found a grape stem and some string. he began
twisting them around each other while he was walking. was he nuts? was
he what? he didn't know. then he thought, why not find out? he looked up
the county mental health. it was close by. he walked in with his string
and grape stem. he waited. then he got to talk to somebody. he started
babbling about everything. he doesn't remember what he said but at the
end of it the guy called over to a shelter that they ran in a hotel in
old town. there was a room. he sent him over. he went. when he got there
they showed him around. he thought, do i want to go this way? he remembered
the shocks. he thought of the state adjustment and assignment centers.
he told them he'd have to think about it. he walked around the block. he
went back in.
rocket
sleepwalk.
he got
a room by the stairway where everybody hung out near the office. he still
went to the cafe and bar. he got two meals a day at this greasy spoon restaurant
for being in the shelter. he was assigned to a counselor. when he went
to the counselor he was logical and rational, or so he thought. he explained
how he knew what was going on. he explained his laingian theory about it
all and how it worked - he even threw in some about campbellian and jungian
archetypes - two other people he had read and was impressed by. his counselor
told him that perhaps he didn't belong here. robert thought about this.
what was the deal? just because he understood he was crazy and why he was
crazy they weren't going to help him? the next time he saw his counselor,
he flipped. he said he was tired of all the bullshit. he said he didn't
know what to do. he had just about had it with people and all their games
and manipulations. he said he felt like walking down the street and randomly
cracking heads open. his counselor said, wait here a minute. when he came
back he had forms for robert to fill out that would get him on state disability.
he was then sent to the social security office to apply for social security
disability. he was in. he didn't know whether he was faking it or not.
that was pretty much the way he felt, though he also understood what was
behind it. he spoke from his primal being - the caged animal going ape
shit. which was real? he didn't know. he didn't care. he had gotten it
to stop, for awhile at least.
he also
started going to this other cafe that was also in old town. it was sort
of a hip spot for whoever was hip at the time - or even not so hip, like
him. he knew a woman from the college he worked at who worked there - she
also had worked in the print shop. she used to give him free food. he'd
hang out there and drink coffee and write in his notebooks. that was all
he had to do. debbi's divorce was coming up. he didn't know what to do
about that. as he said above, no one would represent him. so he had to
end up letting it go by. oh well.
he met
this guy mike at the shelter. they sort of hung around together. once one
of them had gotten some acid - he forgets who. they dropped and went wandering
around forest park in the dark. they didn't get back until the next day.
debbi had told him that she was moving in with ron to his house which he
had just gotten back from his ex-wife. she said that robert had to get
all his stuff out of her basement. he first grabbed his taperecorders and
tapes and brought them back to the shelter. he started playing his tapes
in his room. he also started dragging stuff off the street back there to
continue practicing his magick.
mike
used to play canasta with this woman/girl (she was 23, he was coming up
on 40) kristin who was one of the staff people who worked nights. robert
started hanging out with them. he and kristin used to talk - mainly what
it was like being crazy and what that meant. he lent her doris lessing's
briefing
for a descent into hell, which he somehow had with him. it was a subjective
account of someone who went insane. doris lessing was a friend of laing.
she had also written the four-gated city
which also dealt with insanity
in a different context among a group of people, which had also played into
his metaschizophrenic delusions over the summer, that he had also read.
then a few nights later he came into the cafe in old town, called la patisserie,
and she was there before she had to go to work. he asked if he could sit
with her since the staff weren't supposed to socialize with the shelter
inmates. she said, ok. she said she had been reading the book and that
she was writing to him about it. she gave it to him. it was about how she
imagined having a room with a comfy chair (her words) that she could invite
him to and talk. then she went to work. they began seeing each other outside
the shelter where no one would probably see them together. it was all moving
in one direction. he told her that he would move out of the shelter and
find another hotel, now that he was getting checks. she brought him home.
they sat out on her porch and talked for hours. they went to get take-out
thai food. they went to bed. at the time she was sleeping in her closet
for some reason.
he found
another hotel room nearby. it was very small. he could touch the walls
widthwise with his outstretched arms and hands. it was across the street
from la patisserie which would be where he would spend all day, only going
back to his room to sleep. he and mike got some shopping carts and emptied
out his van. it was a race between the city and the bank that had lent
him the money to buy it as to who would tow it first. that had been his
raft like the insane man had his in lessing's book. they took all of it
to a friend's from the where's the art!?! crew apartment. he forgets exactly
how but he got most of the stuff from debbi's basement to the basement
of the where's the art!?! store. the art queen had a store front with coin
operated art in the windows. then he had a falling out with her - she yelled
at him one too many times - and kristin came and took it all, plus the
stuff from the guy's apartment to a storage space he rented. the storage
space with all his found junk was larger than his hotel room. and some
nights when she wasn't working kristen would bring him home to sleep with
her.
so that
went that way for awhile. then one day he and kristin were at safeway by
her apartment and they ran into this other guy, paul, from where's the
art!?!. he was the audio guy and had also done camera for this is it. he
said he had a semi-finished attic that robert could rent for cheap if he
wanted. they went to look at it. it was an attic divided into a few rooms
with a bathroom, no tub or shower - there was a tub downstairs - and a
kitchen sink, stove and fridge. he took it. he got nightmare back from
debbi, who he'd given her to when he lost his job, and they moved in. he
got all his stuff from the storage space, which included the first web
of chaos. and now he had a place where the kids could come over. he'd only
seen them a few times over the summer.
at first
they both came. then rachel not so much while daniel more so. he was doing
acid now and would come over to robert's when he was tripping. back a while
ago robert had talked to him about drugs, asked if he was doing them. at
the time he wasn't. robert told him that he shouldn't until he got older
but if he did he wanted to know. now he knew. daniel had started doing
drugs while at the runaway shelter the previous spring. great. another
point for debbi and her boyfriend. then once daniel said that he wanted
to trip with him. he thought about it and then decided, why not? so they
did. maybe not the best decision but it was the one that he made. he wasn't
going to stop daniel from doing acid and he thought he'd be able to show
him what it was about and what he should try to get out of it. ultimately
daniel left his mom, where it was made clear that he wasn't exactly welcome,
and came to live with robert. she didn't object. she was probably glad
to be rid of him and all his not getting along with ron. they hung out
at the cafe together, once in awhile tripping.
he and
daniel decided to buy a sheet of acid. they would sell off part of it to
get the money back and eat the rest. the first sheet they bought from some
kid from his son's school was nothing - a dud sheet. they went looking
downtown. they found someone selling acid in front of this club. they bought
some and it was good. they went back and asked the guy if he could get
them a sheet. he said it'd take awhile and he'd need money up front. they
chanced it. meanwhile, robert was downtown once and met these guys from
california who had this stuff called wage peace they were selling. he tried
a hit. it was great. it was smooth without the usual edge and very colorful.
he went back to buy a sheet. at the same time the other stuff came in.
it was good too. this was the day before robert's evaluation for ssd. they
hadn't decided if he was crazy or not. but also they were deciding, if
he was crazy, if he could handle his own money or if they would have to
entrust it to someone else.
robert
had had a few evaluations along the way in order to keep getting his state
disability checks. one doctor he was talking with answering all his test
questions asked him about the teddy bear he had in his overall pocket.
rachel had given it to him and he carried it with him to have her close
to him. robert sneered and said the teddy bear told him to kill people.
the doctor told him that he wasn't crazy but was severely depressed. robert
said, no shit and told him why. at another time the state office had told
him he still needed to be seeing a doctor since he was no longer at the
shelter. he went to this other county clinic on the east side where he
was now living. the doctor said he should be on meds. robert said no. the
doctor said it was his choice. but his state worker decided otherwise and
said he had to take them. he went back and got some. they gave his prozac
which was that year's wonder drug. it was even on the cover of time magazine.
he took it. they then pronounced him stable and said he didn't have to
see them anymore. within a week or two he was so fucked up he couldn't
tie his shoes. he stopped taking it.
so, the
night before his ssd evaluation he had dropped two hits of acid that he
was testing to see if it was any good. he was also at a church of elvis
wedding at the where's the art!?! store. that was one of the windows where
you could get married by one of the coin operated machines. the art queen,
they had made up again, wanted him to come as da to help them celebrate.
so robert donned some of his clown clothes and mask and tripping his little
brain out, he went. he was out all night. the next morning when his appointment
came up that was how he showed up. he was scared. the appointment was for
room 101. he thought of 1984. was this where they were going to get him?
was this it? he went to room 101 and walked in. he was surprised. he was
expecting a receptionist, instead he was right in the guy's office. he
was surprised too. he had expected robert to knock first. he told him to
sit down. he began asking him the usual psychotest questions. then that
was it. robert started asking, well this is great but who's going to help
me get my kids back and straighten all this shit out? the guy pushed a
button under his desk. another guy came in. he was asked to leave. awhile
later he was informed that he had gotten his ssd along with a fat check
for payments back to when he had applied. so now he was a government certified
loon. he bought a bike.
kristin
meanwhile was on and off. she wanted to see him. then she didn't want to
see him. then she wanted to see him again. he wished she'd make up her
mind one way or the other. it was driving him more nuts than he was. part
of this, he thought, was the influence of her girlfriends and roommate.
they were political feminists. men were the cause for all the problems
women had. they were the ones telling her not to spend so much time with
him. one night he had gone over there and they were all sitting around
reading the scum manifesto. he had never seen it before. they enlightened
him, laughing about the parts where it said men were all lowly abject turds.
he admitted that in most cases that was true. he certainly felt like one
a lot of the time. kristin could make him feel like one. later he wrote
a piece about it.
here i
am a lowly abject turd floating around in a toilet bowl rejected by the
body of the great wonderful woman.
she's
flushing the toilet to get rid of me.
oh no!
i refuse to go down.
she flushes
again and again.
still
i refuse.
i bob
to the surface again.
frustrated,
she finally scoops me up and throws me out the window.
i lay
on the ground dissolving in the rain.
i sink
deeper and deeper into the earth.
down
and down.
then
i feel myself being sucked up.
up and
up and out and out.
finally
i come to the sun again.
i flower.
then,
after time, one by one my petals fall off.
i grow
fat and heavy.
i droop
down.
i become
round.
and then,
what do i see?
the great
wonderful woman walking toward me.
i reach
up and pluck myself off.
care
for an apple, my dear, i hiss smiling.
- he figured his all encompassing taoism trumped their dualist feminism -
this on
and off went on for about almost a year before she finally said she wanted
to break off being lovers but still be friends. ok. she wanted them not
to see each other for a month in-between. fine. except they kept running
into each other during that month. but during that month he met someone
else. a rather large someone else. they met while doing a where's the art!?!
art-a-thon, a weekend long where's the art!?! show over labor day. robert
wasn't directing anymore. he was just a guest. that was where he met the
lovely suzanne, as she called herself.
one time
she brought him home, his home, after the show. they sat around and talked.
he told her about kristin and how they had broken up and were going to
be friends after a month. they fucked. they started going out. unlike kristin,
she seemed to want to be with him all the time. then the month was up.
kristin called him and said she wanted to see him. they met. he told her
about suzanne. that's good, she said. she told him about the guy she almost
fucked but didn't. oh well. so this went on, him going out with suzanne
and seeing kristin once in awhile. then it happened that he and kristin
started fucking again. suzanne was pissed. i thought you told me that was
over, she said. he said he thought it was. she left.
she had
a daughter his son's age. they met while they were going out. they liked
each other too. he went to her prom. they performed in the rocky horror
show together. then sometime after that she showed up at robert's house
saying she was moving in. hmm, he thought. this is getting strange, almost
incestuous. but he let her. her mother wasn't too happy but let her daughter
do what she wanted. he was now going out with kristin again. but it soon
fell back into the on and off thing again. then suzanne showed back up.
she said she still wanted to be with him even though he was back with kristin.
he told kristin this and she said, fine, do what you want. so he was fucking
both of them. and still eating acid the whole time. and doing this is it.
and doing his magick. and being crazy.
for some
reason he was in love with kristin despite her on and off wanting to be
with him. he put up with it. despite her friends, and away from her friends,
they could get along. one of things they had talked about when they had
met besides lessing and laing and being crazy was daly and gyn/ecology.
she even had bought him daly's wickedary. she was the one he wanted
to be with. suzanne not so much. they started getting into arguments. finally she left again.
after awhile her daughter left daniel too.
he felt
that he was to kristin what suzanne was to him. he explained this
to her once. she laughed and said he was right. but she was a drug to him.
when they were separated for that month she had left a sweater at his place.
he had to put it away. her smell on it it drove him nuts - horny nuts.
she was talking about breaking it off again. no more lovers, no more friends,
just the end - nothing. they started getting into arguments all the time
too. they were in the middle of one in the cafe when robert started getting
chest pains. he kept on arguing. she finally stopped it and said she was
taking him to the hospital. they went to the emergency room. they both
thought he was having a heart attack. it turned out to be pneumonia. she
brought him home and then said that was it, good-bye. the next night, despite
the pneumonia, he gathered up everything she had given him and rode it
over to her apartment and dumped it on her porch. it took a few trips.
he was at the cafe the following night and she came in and told him, fuck
you.
so now
he was alone again. he sort of felt relieved. that whole thing was a little
too much. so he went back to hanging out and writing in his notebooks.
that's when he met all his friends. there was this underage club near the
cafe called the x-ray cafe. it was run by these two guys who were in this
band who came on where's the art!?! a few times. he knew them. they would
come over to the cafe to get coffee and sit with him. there was a woman
who came with them once in awhile. the two of them became friends. she
began sitting with him too. she had a friend who was a very tall large
queer named, trevor, who was into crowley and the oto and death in june
and stuff of the left hand path. he began sitting with them. another
woman, rose, who was also the first woman's friend came over to sit with
them. she was a writer too and was interested in what he was writing all
the time. he let her read some of it once. she read it and said it was
the deepest most confusing thing she had ever read, or something like that.
she never mentioned it again. then there was this english guy, michael.
he had come over to be with rose. they had met when she was in england.
robert didn't think that she expected or wanted him to show up. these people
plus and minus a few others were always sitting at his table when he was
there - and he was always there. once he was there with some people at
his table. he had to go somewhere to do something. when he got back sometime
later his cup was still there and there were still people at his table
but not the same ones as when he had left.
daniel
was around somewhere. robert didn't know where half the time. he had dropped
out of school. robert told him he needed to find a job. he tried to tell
him that doing drugs was ok as a luxury but only after basic needs were
met first. first you needed income, then a place to live, then pay the
rent and the bills, then if you wanted to do drugs then do drugs. he never
quite got it. he put drugs at the top of the list and didn't bother with
the rest. he had a job once in awhile, mostly washing dishes, but didn't
keep them long. he had his own friends he hung out with. mostly street
kids. he was driven by angst from day one. he was also somber and defiant.
he had to know why for everything you told him to do. both he and his sister
were scorpios. they both were very independent. this was why he didn't
worry about them too much. they knew how to take care of themselves. for
rachel it was laying low. she saw all the trouble her brother got into
for standing up for himself. so she kept herself to herself.
one time
he and daniel were up in the attic. it was hot. it was hot in the summer
and cold in the winter. there was no insulation or heat. he had put in
his woodstove for the winter but it only barely warmed one room. the other
rooms had ice on the inside of the windows. so he was typing out some of
the stuff he'd written in his notebooks. he had gotten his computer back
from debbi. daniel was pacing around. he started scratching the walls as
he did this. he was pushing to see where the limit was. robert didn't say
anything. he ignored him. apparently ignoring him was the wrong thing.
daniel picked up a vase and came over and hit him over the head with it.
it was soft ceramic so it broke easily. but that was the limit. robert
picked up a stick that was lying around - rule of thumb thickness - threw
him on the floor and hit him with it. it was one of those slow motion moments.
he hit him on his legs where it would hurt but not damage anything vital
like his head or something. he wanted it to hurt. he hit him hard enough
to give him welts. he yelled, is this what you fucking want from me? i
could have been beating the shit out of you since you were born. if this
is what you want i'll give it to you. he then stormed out. he went downtown
to the cafe. he cooled down somewhat and called home. both he and daniel
apologized to each other. this is how it had always been and would be between
them. they'd explode on each other and then get over it. fathers and sons.
weren't there a few songs written about that? tull did one, so did harry
chapin and cat stevens. shakespeare and greek myths are full of it. ever
since we were apes. we're still apes. it was this delicate balance between
violent anger and forgiveness that robert had felt ron had stepped into
and interfered with. what the fuck did he know about anything? what business
did he have in it at all? none.
robert
had applied to get section 8 housing - where you rent a place and they
pay part of your rent according to a sliding scale based on your income.
he had no chance when it was just him, but now he was a single parent.
it took a year but it finally came. he went house hunting. he found one
in northeast portland - the "black part" of town. there was a nice black
old woman on one side and a biker gang on the other. there was a bahai
temple next to them and a block long baptist church across the street.
pretty smorgasbord.
they
moved but daniel didn't spend much time there. he was at his girlfriend's.
she was the second woman, rose, who robert had met at the cafe - the one
interested in his writing. she was also a part-time printer but she was
mostly supported by her parents. they were moving back east so she was
about to lose her apartment they had been paying for if she wanted to stay
in town. she asked him if she could stay with him. he said yes. he had
an extra room. one time she and daniel were at this is it. she was dressed
up like a dominatrix. she had a motorcycle. she offered to take daniel
home. later when robert came home they were both in her bedroom, the door
closed. her parents then had moved back and once again set her up in an
apartment after they'd seen where she was living. that's where daniel spent
most of his time. he would only come home when they had a fight - which
was often. he'd hang around all depressed for a few days beore going back.
so robert had found the house and moved all their stuff by himself with
the help of paul who was probably glad he was going. he wanted to finish
off the space and turn it into a real apartment, which he did eventually.
in fact he started it when robert and daniel were still living there, tearing
out walls and stuff.
he himself
was still spending most of his days at the cafe.
robert
had been doing his own private show and magick above the x-ray cafe. these
floors had been burned out and were all dark and full of pigeons and their
shit. some workmen who were remodeling a restaurant around the corner in
the same building saw what he was doing which involved a few mannequins
among other things and started talking about how he was performing satanic
rituals up there. maybe he was. he didn't know. so he was told by the x-ray
guys that he had to stop. so he hauled all the stuff he had collected there
back to his house - in suzanne's vw bus. he had also done a solo performance
at the x-ray itself involving tapes and his da babbling act. he had also
done a show at another overage club which used to have carbret night on
sundays. people would sign up and put on their own show. he thought that
he would try to reproduce this is it. he'd get something going on-stage
and he had a mike out in the audience so people could say what they wanted
along with it - sort of like how the phone-in worked on the cable show.
no one showed up beside kristin and suzanne. this was back when he was
going out with the two of them. no audience showed up either except a few
people at the bar. oh well.
before
this he had done another performance at the x-ray with his make shift near
non-existent conceptual "band" - wasted space. paul - the guy who rented
him the attic - played guitar and they would play sometimes together. like
eric and tom before, he had the idea of rehearsing things and stuff like
that. robert still had the idea of freeform improvisation whether people
knew how to play or not. as well as his synthesizer, robert had a bass
from a friend who had gone to europe or south america or some place and
left it with him. this time people showed up, including kristin and suzanne
- it was the first time they met - and her daughter and daniel, plus paul
and some people from where's the art!?! it was quite a bit of freeform
improvised noise. none of these people had played together - except him
and paul. some of the people never even played but took turns on the bass.
some had their own instruments but had only played by themselves before.
plus his tapes. during the show robert was so caught up in it babbling
into a mike that he didn't notice that everyone had gone outside to smoke
cigarettes and hang out on the sidewalk. the only thing playing was his
tape. he went outside and said, hey, we're still playing, you know. they
came back. at one point some drunken indian had taken the guitar away from
paul saying, let me show you how to play this thing. robert handed out
orereo cookies to the audience. these were the same people in his "band"
who didn't show up for his carbret show. they probably thought they had
made fools of themselves and weren't about to do it again.
then
along somewhere in there more or less he and kathy did a show in la patisserie
cafe. the cafe did not have a gallery space itself. they just hung art
on the walls. bland art. the kind of art people hang in cafes. but he and
kathy treated the cafe as if it were a gallery space. it was sort of like
sorry for the inconvenience and his blue sky show combined. the owners
of the cafe had gone away for a few days while they were setting up, otherwise
they never would have gotten away with it. they brought in and hung up
shit all over the place. on the walls, from the ceiling, everywhere. kathy
was making banners out of fabric by that time. they hung some of those
along with his collages. he even brought in the web of chaos ball from
his blue sky show. when the owners got back it was already a done deal
and they let them keep it up though they weren't too happy about it.
during
the month long installation they did two performances. robert did one thinking
he'd
gather up his conceptual band again and they'd play. again, no one showed
up except paul who refused to play and just sat at a table in the back.
he had brought his guitar and amp so some people played that, mostly rock
riffs that they knew. so that didn't go off too well. the second performance
was him and kathy. they came in full this is it garb and set up at a table
in the center of the cafe. robert was in one of his clown outfits and wearing
swim fins slapping around the place. robert had made a cassette tape of
one of his tapes to play over the stereo system. they had two people videotaping
it, daniel and suzanne. kristin was there too. she sat at the counter and
pretended she didn't know him. she denied him three times that night, he
thinks. maybe more. suzanne, while they were performing, went around to
the people at the tables and interviewed them with her camera in their
face. this was a saturday night and it was mostly people out on dates.
they didn't know they were going to run into this. they were just out having
coffee after dinner or a movie or something. so kathy and robert were in
full tilt improvisational mode running around babbling away about everything
and nothing. a few times paul, who was also there but only watching again,
picked robert up, threw him over his shoulder and carried him downstairs.
the cafe was on the second floor above a jazz bar. robert would then come
back up shouting about how that could be any one of them. somebody could
just come and haul them away at any time. so watch out.
then
they took it all down and robert had another web of chaos ball. he thought
of them as being dormant.
besides
this is it, robert was still doing edited shows and putting them on cable.
many were about the artchurch. one he remembers shooting himself as da
sitting up in his attic apartment - he'd bought a video camera with his
ssd money too, besides the bike. the apartment was pretty much a mess.
it looked like one of the galleries he did his web of chaos shows in. he
went on and on explaining things people needed to know about the artchurch
and the dada-ananda. when he went to edit it he laid down half of it, video
and audio. then he laid the other half on top of it with the two audios
running together side by side and with the video flipping back and forth
from one to the other, the original and the second half. this made him
appear to be jerking around while he was talking. what he was saying was
a word salad. it looked scary. he was scared. the artchurch is scary. the
dada-anada scares everyone.
there
was another cafe that opened in old town - across the street from where
the mental health shelter used to be - called the howling frog. it was
run by some kids he knew from the college he worked at. one of them he
used to play music with a few times. it was a converted storefront. it
had the cafe in front and a large open gallery space in back. robert and
kathy decided to do a show there too. they said they could. it was more
of the same. more junk and strings and ropes and wires and cables strung
all over. more collage constructions, etc. a shopping cart hung on the
wall with police caution tape wrapped around it and around everything else.
as the show went on the more it kept changing. people were invited to do
whatever they wanted with it - even bring in their own art or junk. change
it however they wanted. mostly people stayed in the cafe part.
portland
has this thing called first thursday. it's the first thursday of every
month when all the hot shot galleries open their shows to the public. people
wander around from gallery to gallery taking it all in, and hopefully buying
something. anyway, the howling frog people wanted in on this. they wanted
their gallery to be taken seriously. they were somewhat dismayed at what
robert and kathy were doing - which was basically trashing the place -
because it didn't fit. what was for sale? and first thursday came around
and a few people stopped in to take a look. they didn't seem impressed
- except one guy. it was some old guy in a business suit. he told kathy
and robert that his wife was dragging him around to all these galleries
and this was the only one that he liked. so who can tell?
before
this - the weekend before - when kathy and robert were just setting up
the show, there was a guy scheduled to perform some of his industrial music.
ok, that fits, they thought. but the guy came in and took down most of
what they had put up and covered all the walls with black plastic. this
was the 90s now. black was in. everything had to be dark, darker, darkest.
none of this hippie shit or whatever it was. the following night robert
did his own industrial performance. he brought down his tape recorder that
had its own speakers and played a loop that said, you're not into reality.
he let it play awhile, then smashed the taperecorder with a splitting maul.
robert and kathy did one performance during the show. again improvised
babbling. this time some of robert's friends who had been on this is it
joined them. most people stayed in the cafe part and ignored them. too
cool for school. he didn't try the wasted space band thing again. he had
gotten the message.
they
asked them to take down the show early so they could repaint the walls
before the next show. one of them, who was the one in charge of running
the gallery who apparently was an art major and had apprenticed in nyc
for a year somewhere, told them what they did had been done before. he'd
seen it before. oh well. so much for that. sorry we trashed your gallery
with our bullshit unoriginal art, dudes. and sorry we didn't sell anything.
but we had fun anyway.